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[personal profile] vr_trakowski
Okay, here’s the thing.

Yes, I ship Snape/Lily, in large part because I feel sorry for Snape in the end and think he could have used a little happiness in life.  But, to be honest, I think Lily would have been better off alone.

Snape’s an ass, sure.  They were friends as kids, but Lily was right to turn him away when he apologized, because she was right about his motivation.  Perhaps if she’d given him time to pull his thoughts together he might have changed, but in a very real way she was protecting herself by walking away from him.

That said, James Potter’s a worse ass (and Sirius is worse still, but that’s another rant).  He’s a blatant bully that should have been expelled for what he was doing to Snape in school.  Yes, Snape retaliated, but James and his friends ganged up three or four to one and, among other things, stripped him in public.  James did save Snape from Lupin, but not doing so would have been tantamount to condoning murder--so really, no bonus points for acting like an actual human.

James was nice to Lily.  But would you want to live with someone who treated anyone the way he did Snape?  It’s not just the moral issue; how long before that cruelty would be turned on his partner?

Snape’s no fit lover, but I submit James isn’t either.  Lily should have left them both behind, and found a better person if she wanted one.

Date: 2013-08-11 12:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cincoflex.livejournal.com
Agreed. Point in fact, it was a rough year for finding any student of good moral character at Hogwarts. (I'm assuming Molly and Arthur were a year or two ahead of James and Lily)

Date: 2013-08-11 04:58 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] spockside
Thanks for expressing what I always felt about James and Lily - James was more of an ass than I'd have endured, and Lily was so smart.

Date: 2013-08-11 04:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elfling65.livejournal.com
Totally agree! It was really disturbing to see the "good" guy acting worse than the "bad" guy.

Date: 2013-08-12 01:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katrinb.livejournal.com
Agreed - but then we (and Ginny) wouldn't have Harry. Even an ass can have a good kid.
I agree that Arthur and Molly are far better people, mind you. But then, I'm biased - Molly is the character I identify with more than any other save Hermione.

Date: 2013-08-12 02:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vr-trakowski.livejournal.com
Yes, one really has to wonder what the teachers were thinking.

Date: 2013-08-12 02:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vr-trakowski.livejournal.com
Heh, the whole thing just irritates me so much. But then, I never could resist a wounded heart.

Date: 2013-08-12 02:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vr-trakowski.livejournal.com
It was, wasn't it? Snape was not blameless by any means, but still...

Date: 2013-08-12 02:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vr-trakowski.livejournal.com
Oh, sure, without it there wouldn't be a plot, and good things can certainly come out of bad. I'd say that perhaps being without his father gave Harry a better start, except that the way he was raised should have severely damaged him as it was (and the fact that it didn't is one reason I have trouble taking the whole thing seriously).

:D I like Hermione a lot as well, though frankly I think she should have left Ron in her dust, talk about a mismatch there too!

Date: 2013-08-12 12:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anamin.livejournal.com
I didn't finish 7, but just on the part that Harry saw from the memory training, I agree with you. WTH would you stay with a bully like that, though some folks are known to mature over time. . .

Date: 2013-08-13 02:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vr-trakowski.livejournal.com
Yes, and I assume that James did change as he matured. I guess I just can't forgive him.

Date: 2013-08-13 05:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anamin.livejournal.com
I'm sure you aren't the only one ^_^

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